Guest Post: Six Simple Writing Tips by Kelli A. Wilkins

Six Simple Writing Tips

From Romance Author Kelli A. Wilkins


Hi everyone! One of the most common questions I’m asked when I do an interview is, “Do you have any tips or advice for writers?” well, I sure do! These six practical tips are based on advice I received in my writing classes when I was just starting out and discoveries I made as I wrote. So, let’s get started…

Take Writing Classes: I took my first writing class at a local community college “for something to do” and was hooked. Writing classes are an excellent way to learn the basic mechanics of writing, understand storytelling techniques, and explore different genres. However, they’re not for people who “think about wanting to write” but never do. Homework and class participation are required. In most cases, the instructor gives you an assignment (to write a short story or an opening chapter of a novel) and has you share it with the class. (This may sound easy, but over the years I saw dozens of people drop out of writing classes because they actually had to write!)

Writing classes help you overcome a fear or shyness about sharing your work with others and different readers give you feedback (and critiques) on what you’ve written. Before I took a writing class I never shared my work with anyone but I quickly learned to move past a personal attachment to the work and be open-minded when it came to suggestions and comments. Connections you make with other writers can also continue once class has ended – you may form a writing group or get together to critique each other’s stories. If there are no “in person” writing classes available in your area, consider taking online classes or attending workshops at writing conferences.

Avoid “Bad” Words: Make a list of words you find yourself repeating (or over-using) in your writing. If you belong to a writing group or have a critique partner, ask them to identify words you over-use. They may be more obvious to an outside reader. After you’ve finished a story, do a search for each word and either delete it (if it’s not needed) or change it to a different word.

Some of my “bad” words are: glanced, looked, laughed, that, even, just, once, would, could, felt, shook his head, somehow, started to, although, even though, suddenly, a minute later, a few minutes later, after a few minutes…

She knew that he liked limes. = She knew he liked limes.

I can’t even believe you just said that. = I can’t believe you said that.

It’s also a good idea to search for similarly-spelled words and make sure you’re not accidentally using the wrong word. Some to look out for include: gaps/gasp, gong/going, from/form, though/thought/through.

Rejection Really is Subjective: Got rejected? Join the club. Everyone (and I mean everyone) gets rejected. Rejection is probably the only 100% guarantee in writing. If you send your story (or query) out to five people, you’ll get five different responses. Rejection is hard to deal with, but as a writer you have to understand that the editor is rejecting the story, not you. All editors are not created the same, and sometimes you’ll never know why your story didn’t make the cut. You might get a photocopied form letter that tells you nothing, or no response at all. Other times you might get a cryptic line about “not what we’re looking for” and sometimes you’ll get a paragraph with some explanation (weak plot, characters are not interesting, etc.).

Several years ago I received two rejections in the same day for the same book (A Perfect Match). Editor A said she loved the story and the characters were fantastic but didn’t see a market for a wrestling romance. Editor B said she despised the characters and hated the clothes the heroine wore, but would consider re-reading it if I changed the entire plot and made the heroine into a perky sexpot. Who was “right?” Neither of them. I considered their rejections a perfect example of “everyone has his/her own opinion” and moved on. (And published the book with Amber Quill Press.) My other “favorite” rejections were letters addressed to a different person, but rejecting my story, letters addressed to me but rejecting a story that wasn’t mine, and the best ones? Letters filled with typos!

So you see, anything is possible. The important thing to remember after you’ve been rejected is to keep going. If the editor made suggestions (change the ending, add more dialog, make the heroine a blonde) consider the comments and either make the changes or don’t. No matter what, it’s your story. But keep writing and submitting, because you never know when you’ll get an acceptance.

What’s Where?: Keep a list of when and where you submit your writing. Note the title of the piece (or query subject), date, and publication. This way, you’ll know what’s where and how long ago you sent it. This is handy in case you need to follow up on a wayward query or submission. I also make a list of places to submit to next, (just in case of rejection!) so I’ll know where the story is headed.

Reading Everything is Fundamental!: Writers are usually doing one of two things: reading or writing. Read anything and everything – in your genre and out of your genre – to expand your horizons. The more you read, the more you’re exposed to different styles of writing, tone, voice, and characterization. Read fiction, non-fiction, magazine articles, writing magazines, and the back of cereal boxes. You’ll see how other writers (even famous authors) create setting, mood, and how they tell a great story. (And why not learn from the best?)

Give Yourself Time to Rest: No, this doesn’t mean get lazy and slack off when you don’t feel like writing. A day (or a few hours) off can be a reward for finishing a long project, for completing all the work on your writing “to do” list for the week, or for celebrating a sale. Go for a walk and stretch after sitting in front of the computer and let your mind recharge. Give yourself some freedom and “play” time – you’ve earned it! Taking a mini-break from writing is also helpful if you need to break out of writer’s block. Think about something else besides your story, and in most cases, an idea or a great plot twist will pop into your head when you least expect it.

I hope you enjoyed these writing tips and find them useful. Recently, I shared more writing tips on another guest blog. The links are:

Happy Reading!

Kelli A. Wilkins




Kelli A. Wilkins is an award-winning author who has published more than 80 short stories, fifteen romance novels (for Medallion Press and Amber Quill Press), and four non-fiction books. Her romances span many genres and heat levels and yet she’s also been known to scare readers with a horror story.

Her most recent book, Ultimate Night’s Delights (an erotic historical) was released in September 2013. Look for two historical romances coming soon: Wilderness Bride in March 2014 and Dangerous Indenture in May 2014.

Kelli publishes a blog ( filled with news, interviews, and writing prompts. She also writes a newsletter, Kelli’s Quill, and posts on Facebook and Twitter (

She invites readers to visit her website, to learn more about all of her writings.

Readers can find Kelli on the web here:

Amber Quill Press Author page
Medallion Press Author Page


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